OK - I Seem To Be The Only One
I respect the opinions of the posters here. It sounds like all of you are personally involved in helping your chapters rush, and everyone wants to do as well as possible. It looks that I am the ONLY ONE who sees it the way I do. I recognize that I'm in the minority (in fact, it appears that I AM the minority), but please let me lay out my perspective one last time, just to see if there's anyone who might agree with any part of it.
Here it is: fraternity formal rush does two things. It guarantees every chapter a pledge class, and it makes everyone lazy. The pledge classes are composed almost entirely of men who come through rush, and not men the chapters have actively recruited on campus. Inevitably, even though you can get some top quality guys through formal rush, this leads to smaller numbers, and a kind of 'in-breeding' when the chapters are made up of just those types who come through formal rush.
The harder you make it to complete the rush process prior to pledging, the smaller the number of men who will come out. However, the more competitive you make it by dropping all the rules, the harder and more aggressive the fraternities will be, and the better the pledge classes.
KTSnake, a Sigma Nu who offers us a lot of excellent posts on this forum, used a car dealership analogy to illustrate the majority side. He asked, "Would you rather go to a dealership that carries all lines of cars, or the one that carries just one brand?" Well, with respect, the answer is that I probably want to go only to those dealers I want to go to. If I know I want either a Mercedes or a Jag or a Corvette or a BMW, I already know don't want to be forced to hang out at the Kia or Saturn dealership all afternoon. Now, let's say I hadn't made up mu mind yet that I wanted a new car at all, and I hadn't been to any dealerships. And, let's say the Saturn salesman approached me and made me his friend and asked me to come over the the dealership. I probably would go, and they might make a sale that they surely would NOT make if I was forced to go see all the dealers. Also, if all the dealers agreed to close on Saturday, I'd be resentful that I had that Staurday option taken away from me, the customer.
Look, here's the real heart of all this. Do you want your fraternity system to grow and prosper much moreso than it's doing now? Then turn loose the power of the entrepreneur. Free the creative and ambitious men to go out and get the best guys. Free the aggressive men to create a fraternity that is so powerful and strong thatr it WILL FORCE the competition to get better just to keep up.
I was a member of a chapter that was right in the middle of a strong system, and we had full, formal rush. The system was set up to benefit the strong, and hurt the weak. We had a much better chance of getting top guys if we could go out and rush and pledge them before the Sigma Nus or Phi Delts and SAEs or whoever was on top had the chance to just stand there in formal rush and cherry-pick guys that we never really had a shot at if the rushee got to comparison shop. We overcame it by being super-aggressive in open rush, and IFC got out of the formal rush business. I'm hearing a lot of talk about 'fairness' in this thread. Formal rush is never fair to the weaker houses, just like it's not fair to the weaker sororities when they have their formal rush. What's 'fair' is to give everyone the same opportunity to either succeed or fail on their own. If everyone has 40 members and the Lambda Chis suddenly grow to 100 and they're a quality chapter and they dominate sports and social and leadership, then Lambda Chi's rivals (hating to take a back seat) will work harder to grow to meet LXA'a threat of dominating the system. yes, some fraternities are going to go out of business, but men, that is always because they just don't have enough to offer to attract enough members. Or, it's because they don't know how to rush. And there are enough of us out there who DO know how to rush, in every national, that no one should ever find themselves without that good advice.
Thanks for listening. I really enjoy reading the comments on this board.
Last edited by Firehouse; 03-29-2003 at 07:49 PM.
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