Marisol,
You will never be fully satisfied unless you know the truth. I know it seems difficult because she is in an organization that you want to be a part of, but you have to ask her. Tell her what you have heard and then tell her your version. Believe me it will make you feel better and she will probably develop a new respect for you. Remember most organizations don't pick weak members. And if she lies to you and you don't make it you really don't want to be part of an organization that doesn't want you.
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