I would like to clarify something. I never stated she should go behind her mother's back. I said she has a right to make her own decisions. Whether she tells her mother or not is up to her. Our parents are not always going to agree with the things we do, but there comes a time when most learn to respect their children's decisions.
There is no gaurantee that she will be selected for membership in the undergrad chapter on her campus. However, the chances of entering a grad chapter are even more slim because she has to be extended an invitation to join.
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