How things can change once you step into the Pink and Green light...Almost 3 years ago, I had a similar situation with my ex-fiance. I'll spare everyone the tear-jerking details, but we we through a few months after I crossed. I decided whomever I was going to be with (dating, or for the rest of my life) would have to understand that Alpha Kappa Alpha had become a part of my life for the REST of my life as of 1997. This would mean that I would juggle my life's activities a little differently, making time for what was most important to me. I believe that people do what they want to do; if you wish to try to make amends with your guy and help him not to feel excluded, I know you'll do that. However, I'm just wondering if your livelihood in the sisterhood is being perceived as a viable threat to him. This seems to be the case (looking from the outside in), and I also wondering about his sense of security in your relationship. Pray about it, and keep us posted--you see we are all concerned about you
By the way, if he's in a fraternity, working hard AFTER crossing should NOT be a foreign concept to him, should it? (Okay, that may be a new topic for another post...)
My nickel and three cents,
APR
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