Thank you for your responses, it's good to get another perspective for it.
I definatley think that he's using it as a crutch. In not treating it properly, he's definately just having a "this is the way things are, sorry" attitude.
I myself am a firm believer in controlling things that you can control.
He says he hasn't been to a therapist in awhile, but he's going Monday. That's all that he does to treat it, goes, every once in awhile, but he refuses to take medication. While he claims to have a mild case of it, I think differently. While I have almost no experience with it, when I look back on all that we've been through since last fall when we sorta started dating, G.A.D. has had such a huge effect on it. If something is having such a huge effect on your personal relationships, shouldn't you try to do more to control it?
He's using it as an excuse, and we talked for hours last night about it. Essentially he's fine with not being able to date anyone, and wants to be just friends now. How convenient. I've done all that I can do with him, i've put up with so much, this constant limbo. So I guess i've kind of accepted the fact that he doesn't want to do anything to change it, and I can't make him.
Thanks everyone, b/c in hearing from other people, it helps me understand things.
I love how I can always go to GC with any random ass question on my mind and get a good response from people that I "sorta" know. Gotta love ChitChat
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