i totally feel you on it. i literally hurt inside when i would see other sororities having fun, parties, going to ritual, etc. and when i did get together with my sisters, it was sad. cuz we all just looked around at each other and realized we would never go through a formal meeting or ritual together again. that all we had at that point was our friendships that for some weren't all that great. so i know what you mean by that.
as for nationals though, i can't fault them. at least now i can't. now i realize that it was going to happen anyways. they at least gave us the choice to stick it out one more semester or cut our losses and close when we did. and b/c so many girls were getting physically ill due to the stress of the chapter, we felt it best to close. someday my chapter will reopen. we were always a great group on that campus and npc at miami shouldn't have a problem with us coming back. here's to the future and forgetting the past (but stilll earning from it)
shelley j
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