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Originally posted by James
smiley21 there is something seriously wrong with this topic . . .
Why are you confused?
Bear with me: you had a great relationship with this guy and it only went sour when you basically told him that your parents don't approve of him and won't let you see him.
So you basically said you just want to be friends, and then went on to maintain a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with him anyway.
Talk about confusing for him.
So why are you surprised that he would take you seriously and just do what you told him you wanted? Be friends, or in your case friends with benefits. If anything you should be happy that he is still treating you like a GF because it makes it much harder for him to find someone else and you get the best of both worlds.
But remember: you chose to ruin this relationship. So only you can repair it, if you it can be repaired. Most things that are broken and mended are never as strong again.
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i get what your saying. i was confused cause i thought that he wanted me back as his girlfriend due to the fact that he made references like 'my girlfriend' or 'my girl' or something. i guess i was reading too much into it. what he needs is space. but really we should have never got serious in the first place. he is not stable (emotionally, physically...) i dont want to get into it. too personal. he told me that i am his closest friend and he knows that i will do anything for him. that is because i want him to be happy. he deserves to be happy.
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