every chapter is different, so the particular qualities My chapter of adpi looks for in prospective new members and the qualities the mt chapter is looking for might differ. i can tell you that they probably are looking for girls that are more than 'just' "fun and pretty" and probably more than someone that "goes to school and daddy gives [them] money" so hopefully if you spend time on greekchat and whatnot you will broaden your perspectives and have good luck during your recruitment and end up where you are meant to be.
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