Okay, thanks so much for the advice. The thing is, this chapter is a VERY WELL KNOWN chapter. I have even heard it brought up on here a few times. The advisor knows some things, but not everything. She is an older Alumna and I think she chooses to turn her head. Maybe she doesn't know, I am not sure. Anyway, I wrote an e mail to this girl and told her how I felt and that I hated being put in this situation. They are my sisters, though, and that makes it tougher. I asked her to think about how this could affect AGD's at other campuses if they were to know, and I understand other chapters do it, but I know that if I heard a chapter of XYZ would circle my fat when I joined I would not go there, and if I heard that AGD didn't haze at all I would want to go there more. She hasn't replied but I think I sent a message to her that what they are doing is wrong, even if it is continuing a tradition. My pledge class changed a lot of traditions (down to not drinking before dances if you are under 21). We have a stronger chapter now because of it and are so much happier. We even got a new chapter advisor!!!
Again, thanks so much! Loyally in EPi
Sarah
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