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I was watching "serendipity" the other night. the whole movie is based on 'soulmates' and whathaveyou.
I think one of the best concepts in that movie is that using the term 'soulmate' is rather dangerous. it implies that we have no control over who we end up with down the isle. some great force, such as destiny or fate is basically controlling where we go, who we meet, and what not. if that is the case, why should we even get out of bed in the morning if some force is eventually just gonna run us into the right person?
It's so we can make mistakes and learn from the mistakes and grow.
I honestly believe that I am not gonna find Mr Right. I don't have a soulmate and if I do, he is probably in another country that I will never venture to see. What I will find is Mr Good Enough and I will live the rest of my life learning how to live in some sort of harmony.
SOrry if this made no sense... I am kinda sleepy.
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