what have i done....?

[AchtungBaby80]

Anyway, LuaBlanca, I agree with what everyone has said, especially Hootie--do not see him. It will only prolong the awkwardness and make him think that he has a chance, thus he will keep bothering you and himself. You could have been me a couple of years ago, and now I know that it's just better to cut those strings than to try to be "friends" with him, because it honestly sounds as though this guy could be bad news. Listen to Cream--I wish I'd had someone tell me that, instead of thinking it was my fault (which, contrary to what Imthechump believes, is not true). He probably blames you for all his problems, but if your side of the story is accurate you are definitely not in the wrong. Don't let him con you into giving you his sympathy, because that's what people like him do--they draw people in with their sob stories so that you feel sorry for them and want to help them, and then before you know it they drain you emotionally. Just get away. Maybe it's good that he's moving across country, because then you know he won't be just popping up in random places where you happen to be and hiding outside your dorm.