what have i done....?

[adduncan]

I agree w/ everyone's post.

I had a relationship like this too in the past. He will NOT change. If anything, his controlling behaviour will escalate eventually into full-blown physical abuse. What he is doing to you right now is the precursor: emotional abuse. He is degrading you with the goal of making you think that he is the only one who wants you. If he wins, you will be paralyzed and escape will be that much harder when the physical abuse begins. And it will.

Cut him off. For the time being, he does NOT exist. He's not looking out for your best interest, therefore, YOU have to look out for YOU.

{{{}}} Best of luck. Do NOT give in to the temptation to see him. The beating that your psyche will take is not worth it.

Adrienne