Dating slump?

[James]

Uh, there is a very little excuse for an objectively attractive girl to be ina dating slump.

No only do guys in general pay more attention to you, but if you are a little bit agressive you should be able to pick a lot of guys up.

If you aren't the kind of girl that will be the agressor then you are forced to be at the mercy of whichever guy tries to pick you up. Not a situation indicative of a lot of choice lol.

Here are some mental tricks I use while dating.

Stop looking for Mr. Right. Look for Mr. Right now and allow him to become Mr. Right, if he really is.

That reduces some of the pressure because you stop forcing the other person into a mold.

Think in terms of auditioning. Dating and even being serious is a way of auditionining, or letting someone try out for your team. As you get to know them better you see if they play well enough to keep them.

And you know there are always other people that want the part. So why keep someone that isn't as good as someone else?

Oh and get over your fear of being hurt. You will always get hurt, and you will always recover from it lo. After all, you haven't died yet .