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If you think that the relationship is on balance good, I would say go for it, but definitely in a 2 bedroom apartment. I look at it this way: I'd rather live with a guy I'm dating and in love with than a random roommate. So why not? As long as you go into it knowing that it is a risk (and what in life isn't?) I don't see what the harm is. I do not think that it is necessary to be engaged before moving in -- and I wouldn't assume that you are even thinking about getting engaged yet, let alone married. The one thing you might want to consider (if you haven't already) are your cleanliness standards -- I mean, if you can agree on cleaning the place and dividing chores, that would be awesome, because when living with someone, that can be a big deal.
But then, take what I say with a grain of salt -- I've moved in with several people, one after knowing him for less than a week. Of course, they didn't all work out, but I really don't regret doing any of it. Keep us posted, and good luck!
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