Rushing Gay

Originally posted by Corbin Dallas:
True. I think brothers are for the most part very understanding if a brother comes out, probably moreso than of someone who comes in wearing their sexuality like a high school letter jacket and wants to join their group.

I would never walk into a room and say "I'm gay, how does that make you feel." Actually it would not be obviouse to anyone except those that cross my personal life. I just don't want to been seen as deceitful if it ever comes out (excuse the pun) in the future. I have no issue with my sexuality (it really isn't that big of a deal) but don't want my future brothers to think that 1.) our brotherhood was based on untruths
2.) that I deliberately deceived them.

And what about the potential for thoughts like: "this whole time he was gay... I wonder if he was looking at my ass in the showers..."

I am anxiouse to contribute to my future fraternity (assuming I am accepted into one), and I am anxiouse to be accepted by my future brothers... I just don't want anything to happen that may prevent years of friendships...