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Originally posted by DSTSolo01:
I really felt compelled to respond to this topic....because it's something similar to a situation I am currently in. I'm involved with a guy, we've been intimate for some time now without a committment, and now that I am pressing the issue of committment, it seems as if he is dodging it.. and I wonder if it's because we've already been together sexually.. does he still respect me? Our relationship didn't start out as purely physical.. we started as friends and gradually worked our way up to being physical.
But it just kills me how a guy will be all over you, trying to get in your draws, and if you give in, then you're a whore, you're easy.. Why isn't he the whore for pushing up on you? And then if you don't give in, then you're a tease or playing games? I hate the double standard in this country. Why is it that women aren't allowed to want sex? **Women get H*RNY too!!!!** Yet when we try to satisfy our desires, we are ostracized for it. 
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Don't worry about what other people think. Be discreet, but be yourself. I aint hatin'but if that brutha doesn't want to commit, ask him why not. Let him know you're woman enough for the truth, then accept his answer and continue on with it, or move on without him.
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