I'm adding more to this story as it goes... Or rather from what I have observed from my unmarried 30 something acquaintences and experiences...
In my questions, I purposely left out those women that goto sperm donors, or have fun with sperm donors or "make arrangements" to be a surrogate. That in itself is a big mess to me. But whateva floats one's boat...
I left out women whose husbands divorced them or died because that is a totally different situation all together. More than likely, the couple decided to have children together, but for whatever reason the relationship did not last or the spouse died. So that is a slightly different situation that I have been encountering...
The situation I am trying to understand is a recognizably, able-bodied, attractive, have many options in life late 20s-30 something woman that is single and no man in sight. I am talking about a woman that already has a Bachelor's degree and is working or has her master's or doctorate or professional degrees. I am talking about a woman that make upwards of $50K or more first job application... I am talking about women who are mostly African American. But some I have seen in other ethnic groups... The one thing these women have in common is that they feel sooooo compelled to not be alone that they go out the, take the "Easy Steps" test for pin-point accuracy, meet some man that they have been eyeing for awhile or think is rather handsome, work with them on the sex on the balcony in the rain--right on the early stages of ovulation, and BAMMMM--TA-DA!!!! "Honey, we're expecting!!!!"
As far as younger folks go such as 25 and under, I hate to say it, but y'all just a little clueless when it comes to what some games grown folxs try to play... If anything, it usually is an older woman catchin' up a younger man 'cuz of a virility issues--no vitamin V needed... But if the woman's slick and deceptive, she will get caught up with a dude that can at least pay for somethin' like the "baby monitor" or the hospital ultrasound tests...
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