Ok, I completely disagree about the sleeping with someone without knowing if they would deceive you or not. YOU NEVER KNOW!! A relationship is based on trust. I trusted my ex, and after 3 years, some lies surfaced. If you had asked me 3 years ago if he was lying, I would have told you absolutely not, I know my man. WRONG!!! The point is, you never know.
Now, I know of a dude who each time he has sex with someone, he provides the condoms, he STILL pulls out before he's finished, he checks the condom for noticeable breaks, and then he empties the semen OUT of the condom and into the toilet before flushing both of them down. Now, if he is going thru all of that, I would say that there are some conniving women out there. I, myself, have heard of men throwing the condom away and women inseminating themselves after the fact. (Can yall tell I have a lot of male friends?
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It's IDEAListic to say that one should get to know a person SO VERY WELL that there's not a doubt in your mind that that person would deceive you. But that's not very REAListic at all. I would have had to wait 3 years. Hell, I wouldn'ta even been in the mood anymore. LOL! And I believe that my ex did and still does love me. But he was and still is WEAK. We have all done wrongs to people we LOVE.
Just my .08 and I'll step down off my soap box now.
[This message has been edited by Ideal08 (edited April 05, 2001).]
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