A Terrible Bind...

[TruePursuit]

Hi all,

I an not sure of the approporiateness of this topic but please understand that I honestly just need some objective advice.

The problem is, I have two friends, right. I met both of them in college but they're known each other since grade school. I'm closer to one than the other and the one I'm closest to told me that she has been sleeping with my other friends' boyfriend. I really feel bad for knowing something like that and my other friend doesn't know. My question is, what would you do? Would you tell the friend or would you stay out of it?

Deeply Troubled

[NOWorNEVER]

Originally posted by TruePursuit
Hi all,

I an not sure of the approporiateness of this topic but please understand that I honestly just need some objective advice.

The problem is, I have two friends, right. I met both of them in college but they're known each other since grade school. I'm closer to one than the other and the one I'm closest to told me that she has been sleeping with my other friends' boyfriend. I really feel bad for knowing something like that and my other friend doesn't know. My question is, what would you do? Would you tell the friend or would you stay out of it?

Deeply Troubled

Wooooow Well, I can't give solid advice because I've never been in a similar situation. But if I was in that situation, I wouldn't tell the dirty friend that she's wrong as two left shoes and needs to tell the other friend. If she doesn't then I'd mention what I found out to the other friend and then stay out. I'm a drama free person and usually don't like to get in folks' business but this is your girl! And if that same dirty friend sleeping with your boyfriend, wouldn't you want to know?