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Originally posted by sororitygirl2
Okay... I didn't read the whole thread so I hope I am not repeating what someone else said.
Anyway, to me, the most hurtful words are no words at all. I would rather have a guy be a dick and tell me how he really feels than to just write me off and ignore my calls.
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Why the hell do some guys think that ignoring you is going to make everything ok? This $%#&*@ - a guy I used to date, of course - makes me SO mad. That's how he'd always deal with me whenever something came up that was slightly rocky, he'd just ignore me until I got over it (even if he was the source of the issue in the first place). Big fan of hanging up phones or blocking me on IM if we ever talked about something he didn't want to talk about (long distance relationships are loads of fun...). So I called it quits eventually (this was like 2 years ago), but we were really good friends for a long time before we decided to get involved so I figured after a while, I'd try to reopen the lines of communication.
This dude has a fiancee now. You'd think we could be friends again, especially since he started talking to me. It wasn't like I hunted him down, he found me. Then he decides to try to get me to become a "friend with benefits." Please. I'm not about to be the other woman. Now he refuses to talk to me. You'd think he could at least tell me why, even if it was, "You know, I can't handle being friends." That'd be FINE. At least I'd know. But when I try to talk to you to find out how you're doing after you've been talking to me for a month, don't just pretend like I suddenly don't exist!
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