i've seen that scenario played out so many times when i was in school.  i really think that it depends on the chapter.  if they are real tight or feel that their sister was wronged then the person seeking membership is sol. but if they are not so tight and/or someone stands up and says ok,i know you don't like her but she demonstrates good character and leadership skills and i think that she will be an asset----then maybe.  i have had alot of people say i don't like such and such, we just come to gether in the name of the sorority to do community work  & thats it.  i think that it takes a big person to put aside their personal diffreences and look at the bigger picture and not many WOMEN are able to do that.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	
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