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Originally posted by KillarneyRose
Hi Jenn!
Unfortunately, the answer I have for this isn't one you're going to like. I know this because I wouldn't like it either!!! But......since I suspect I have quite a few years on you (ugh!), I will tell you the one ironclad relationship lesson I have learned:
If you're hesitating to tell your S/O about something you're planning to do because you're worried it will upset him/her, then that means you shouldn't do it. Even if, to you, it is something relatively harmless, you have to take into account that your S/O doesn't share that opinion.
Yup, I learned that one the hard way.
Good luck; let us know what you end up doing!
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Yes, take the advice of KR into extreme consideration!!!! She always gives great advice. Actually, I don't recall her ever giving bad advice!
We should call her "ol' faithful" not because she is old, she isn't old!!! But because she has, well as she put it "quite a few years" on some of us
In all honesty though, I have learned to always listen, if not, at least consider the advice given from someone that has gone through something similar and learned the hard way.
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