Help: Why would a girl do this?

[XOMichelle]

Thanks for the support!
Hootie, that's awful. I just don't understand what men expect from a realtionship. Do they think it's our job to tolerate awful behavior? Why are we supposed to put up with a bunch of little inconsistiencies? Then why are we "stupid" if we are trying to give people the benefit of the doubt, give something our all, and be merciful and kind? I don't know. If I do that and some guy thinks that still is not enough, they are not worth my time, and msot likely won't be worth anyone else's. (This is where I wish my ex read this board! Get a taste of his own medicine the bastard.)

ThetaLove-
The men in your class willl think the story is interesting, don't you think? Since they don't have an insight into this perspective. They may not find it exciting or adventurous, but that doesn't mean that other people won't.
-M

[ThetaLove]

I'm wrapping my story up. My biggest problem now is wheter or not her growth is believable. I mean, the story happens over a period of a couple months. Can a person change so drastically?

[James]

The problem, I have found, is that women don't have a good model to know whether they are being a good companion or not.

Therefore most women have no way of knowing whether they are doing well or not in a relationship.

That is something me and some girl-pals worked out.

The guy role is a lot easier. So its easier for us an others to tell if we are doing a good job . . . .

I assume you all know what I am talking about?

Originally posted by XOMichelle
Thanks for the support!
Hootie, that's awful. I just don't understand what men expect from a realtionship. Do they think it's our job to tolerate awful behavior? Why are we supposed to put up with a bunch of little inconsistiencies? Then why are we "stupid" if we are trying to give people the benefit of the doubt, give something our all, and be merciful and kind? I don't know. If I do that and some guy thinks that still is not enough, they are not worth my time, and msot likely won't be worth anyone else's. (This is where I wish my ex read this board! Get a taste of his own medicine the bastard.)

ThetaLove-
The men in your class willl think the story is interesting, don't you think? Since they don't have an insight into this perspective. They may not find it exciting or adventurous, but that doesn't mean that other people won't.
-M