Many girls hear "You just know" and struggle to get that "I know" feeling when maybe it really isn't there. I think you know when:
-You find yourself talking and joking as if you've known these people forever.
-You deeply feel they accept you for YOU.
We all get that gutt-feeling when someone is being fake with us, so stay true to that.
It's also true that you could choose one sorority or another and the girls are just as wonderful as the next. So then maybe you turn to other factors to help tip the scale like Philanthropy efforts you feel passionate about, social events you feel comfortable with, the opportunity to build and grown, etc.
I'm sure you will make the right decision for yourself. Good luck in your search!
KappaPsiDelta@NYU
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