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This may be a little off subject, but it's not too far...
... At Carolina, we have "tailgating tents"... the fraternities set up tents and all the girls come to them to tailgate. Well, there was a rumor going around that a certain fraternity had to "prove" their dates if they weren't "Southern Belles." The "Southern Belles" at my school are Tri-Delt, ZTA, and KD. So, I asked one of the fraternity guys if that was true. He responded by saying, "If a girl's hot, she's hot no matter what sorority she's in." I ended up being his date to three tailgates, and not a single brother complained about the fact that I wasn't in a "Southern Belle" sorority, and I actually have a lot of friends in those sororities now.
... My point is, most guys have that mindset. If a girl's hot, cool, whatever, they really don't care what sorority she's in. Just like if I found an incredibly hot, cool, whatever guy in a so-called "bad" fraternity, I wouldn't give him any less of a chance. And I'll admit, it was pretty cool to say I was dating a KA, but I dated him because he was a wonderful guy and I loved him, not because of the letters he carried.
... Sometimes it does get frustrating when sororities or fraternities are pre-judged. Ok, it's ALWAYS frustrating when sororities or fraternities are pre-judged. But you can always break this pre-judgement by just being yourself and having fun.
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