Hey!
I went through the same thing.. my very good friends from high school didn't really like the whole greek system, and like your friends, some of them actually bashed it while I pledged.. but we have still remained good friends, they understand how important the sorority is too and I have not comprimised my friendship, some to this day still have the same point of view, but some have become more openminded since I joined...
BTW don't try to fight what they believe, if your friends are going to be ignorant about the whole fraternity system, just don't bring it up or change the convo.. very simple. It might be hard, because your are going to love being in your sorority, but it'll be a little compromise.
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