Should we always put it on a higher being?

[oneinamillion]

I just don't know how you chose this one because I've been thinking about this...
you know how people say "If God wants you to have it you'll have it" or "God has something better in store for you".
This is a very interesting topic and I believe that we do take these statements for granted to therapeutize ourselves when issues take an unexpected turn.
But on the flip side there has been times when I really wanted something and I didn't get it and sooner down the road something way better came along.
But the statements are over spoken alot.
Makes me think of the son "what God has for me it is for me"; nevertheless people over use it when it's something they're truly at fault for or something that could have been avoided.