Do you and the other members of the chapter like her and enjoy her company, even though she isn't the "coolest" person? Bid her.
Do you feel sorry for her? Don't bid her.
There is a big difference between the two. Also, it depends how big your chapter is...if you have 150 people she might not make a dif one way or the other...if you have 25-30 people it might.
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