What do you feel like saying, right now?

[cheerfulgreek]

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Yeah, that makes a lot of sense. What you just described? That’s what real love looks like. Not the fireworks, it’s the foundation.

And honestly, props to your hubby for holding it down without making it about him. That’s strength most people don’t even notice unless they’ve had to do it. Emotional safety ain’t loud. It’s consistent. It’s choosing calm when everything in you wants to react. That’s rare.

But I also respect you for looking back and owning your part. A lot of people don’t do that. Chicks especially. They bounce before owning up. The fact that you see him now, even retroactively, that matters. That kind of awareness? That’s how you grow closer, for real.

Y’all are a solid couple, no doubt. It ain’t about being perfect. It’s about being accountable to each other when life ain’t pretty. I respect that heavy. Thanks for sharing that, CG. Now, I get what you meant by that.

I can’t speak for other women and why they act on the decisions they make. I mean, some have good reason to leave if they married a jerk, lol. I’m very lucky though. When I met him, something in me just clicked. I fell hard and fast… and it felt so safe to. It’s like, how I am, I don’t halfway love, I go all in.. heart, mind, soul, the whole thing. And I’m so glad I did with him.

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Yeah, dude is sending Venezuelans back who came here legally.

Yep. I think he’s sending the Marines in to stop the protests, if he hasn’t already. I hate him. I’m so sick of watching evil people win. They lie, manipulate, hurt others, and somehow they get rewarded for it. And yeah, I know God sees everything, but sometimes I wish He’d move faster? Because good people are drowning while cowards keep getting crowns. Pisses me off!

Originally Posted by Phrozen Sands

Wish I could be a fly on the wall watching a veterinarian do that in a vet clinic Lol.

I put on “Music in You” and I rocked it… in scrubs, lol. This dance.