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Old 10-07-2024, 05:11 PM
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My personal opinion:

1. Back in the early days, women came here to get recruitment advice and share their stories. Members became obsessive with it. THEN, we had to tell PNMs not to use real chapter names or tell where their school was because members would figure out their schools and chapters and impair their recruitment experiences. It was sad to watch poster after poster leave before finishing her story because someone PM'd them to say, "Hey, I know you're at UCF and your final two chapters are Alpha Phi and AGD" or whatever. That's CREEPY! And word gets around!

2. This place became FULL of just mean-spirited people. Someone would ask a question, and people would jump down their throats. I was often times shocked at how rude someone could be to a person who just asked a simple question about something they heard or what not. Like, touch grass people! Greek Life isn't that serious!!!

3. This forum, unlike GreekRank, is not fully anonymous. You can say what you like about GreekRank, because it's a cesspool, but it is also a pretty realistic view of a campus's greek life climate. In helping daughters of friends with recruitment, I always go there to get the lay of the land.

4. This site, while great for us old heads, doesn't seem to attract any college-aged members anymore. The posts are all by alums who are far removed from the collegiate experience in most ways. I stay because I like the recruitment thread, and when irishpipes left, I figured I'd keep it going. I know I'm not as good at it as she is, but everyone wants to know that stuff.

How do you fix it? I don't know...get some younger blood on board?

100% this. I also will add that I stopped posting when certain moderators began imposing their political beliefs onto others and saying some pretty unacceptable things about the lgbtq+ community. They also used their power to shut down other posters and threads that differed from their views though there was nothing in the threads that would merit closure.

If this space is not safe for anyone with a differing viewpoint, then why would the next generation want to join?
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Old 10-07-2024, 10:00 PM
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Thank you to everyone for sharing your views & opinions. All of your comments are very useful, informative and most greatly appreciated.

Please keep the comments coming if anyone has more to share or if anyone hasn't commented yet.

I've taken lots of notes as I read through this thread up to this point. Pretty much every post since all of them were so helpful.

I'll be posting more on the various comments soon, but for now let's see if we get some more views / opinions being shared in this thread.
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