GreekChat.com Forums  

Go Back   GreekChat.com Forums > Recruitment > Sorority Recruitment
Register FAQ Community Calendar Today's Posts Search

Sorority Recruitment Recruitment event and bid day ideas, membership retention, publicity, recruitment policies, etc.

» GC Stats
Members: 331,145
Threads: 115,703
Posts: 2,207,374
Welcome to our newest member, Davidcoard
» Online Users: 2,718
0 members and 2,718 guests
No Members online
Closed Thread
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old 08-29-2023, 01:34 PM
AZTheta AZTheta is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: N 37.811092 W -107.664643
Posts: 5,321
Once again we see that the courts are reluctant to interfere or intervene in the affairs of private organizations.

I’m with you, carnation and honeychile. Totally. REFILE is my mantra now.
__________________
"One of the painful things about our time is that those who feel certainty are stupid, and those with any imagination and understanding are filled with doubt and indecision." Bertrand Russell, The Triumph of Stupidity
  #2  
Old 08-29-2023, 02:35 PM
navane navane is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2001
Location: San Diego, CA
Posts: 2,938
Quote:
Originally Posted by article
A judge has dismissed a lawsuit contesting a transgender woman’s admission into a sorority at the University of Wyoming, ruling that he could not override how the private, voluntary organization defined a woman and order that she not belong.
Quote:
Originally Posted by AZTheta View Post
Once again we see that the courts are reluctant to interfere or intervene in the affairs of private organizations.
As they should be, right? The government shouldn't have the right to tell me that I can or cannot belong to the Southern California Knitters' Club or whatever. We have the right to free association in our private organizations and that includes GLOs. We want to protect our ability to select our own members. So this knife is going to cut both ways.

I personally think the members' issue is with KKG HQ.
__________________
GFB Z
Gamma Phi Beta

True and Constant
  #3  
Old 08-29-2023, 03:28 PM
ASTalumna06 ASTalumna06 is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Queens, NY
Posts: 6,304
Quote:
Originally Posted by navane View Post
As they should be, right? The government shouldn't have the right to tell me that I can or cannot belong to the Southern California Knitters' Club or whatever. We have the right to free association in our private organizations and that includes GLOs. We want to protect our ability to select our own members. So this knife is going to cut both ways.
Exactly.

Quote:
I personally think the members' issue is with KKG HQ.
I've been saying this all along.

An unqualified, alleged creeper was forced upon the chapter by the national organization.

If a straight woman who the chapter deemed wasn't acceptable due to grades and behavior was forced upon the chapter by the national org, we'd be looking at the exact same concern.

This issue should have been handled internally from the start.
__________________
I believe in the values of friendship and fidelity to purpose

@~/~~~~
  #4  
Old 08-29-2023, 04:11 PM
carnation carnation is offline
Super Moderator
 
Join Date: Aug 2000
Posts: 14,359
I got the impression that the reason it went to a suit was that the national and local KKG execs wouldn't listen to the members who were upset. Always a bad move!

However, not only did this guy have sucky grades but he did some really creepy stuff that made many members uncomfortable and unsafe.
  #5  
Old 08-29-2023, 06:46 PM
navane navane is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2001
Location: San Diego, CA
Posts: 2,938
Quote:
Originally Posted by carnation View Post
I got the impression that the reason it went to a suit was that the national and local KKG execs wouldn't listen to the members who were upset. Always a bad move!
Well.....yes.....that absolutely is a bad move.....but that doesn't make it a federal case.

KKG is a private organization. I can understand and sympathize with the members feeling like they are not being heard regarding what they feel is a very uncomfortable situation. However, as hard as it is to swallow, the members need to take their member selection dispute up with their private organization.
__________________
GFB Z
Gamma Phi Beta

True and Constant
  #6  
Old 08-29-2023, 07:24 PM
carnation carnation is offline
Super Moderator
 
Join Date: Aug 2000
Posts: 14,359
A lot of the NPC groups say that they're trying to be more transparent lately but only because so many millions of dollars of donations have disappeared. The groups deserve that. I don't know how they think they can make decisions for the whole membership like they have...I've heard some horror stories from friends in various NPCs, all of whom donate their money elsewhere now.
  #7  
Old 08-30-2023, 09:40 AM
33girl 33girl is offline
Moderator
 
Join Date: Sep 2000
Location: Hotel Oceanview
Posts: 34,569
Quote:
Originally Posted by navane View Post
Well.....yes.....that absolutely is a bad move.....but that doesn't make it a federal case.

KKG is a private organization. I can understand and sympathize with the members feeling like they are not being heard regarding what they feel is a very uncomfortable situation. However, as hard as it is to swallow, the members need to take their member selection dispute up with their private organization.
When you’re pretty much told “if you don’t like it, you can quit” I would say you have run into a brick wall regarding taking it up with the organization. As many things that get labeled hazing because they “place one sister above another” KKG has done exactly that. They have shown that Artemis, who keep in mind did not meet grade requirements and was voted on in an unorthodox fashion, is more important than the members who filed the lawsuit. Perhaps when they refile they should throw in a hazing charge.
__________________
It is all 33girl's fault. ~DrPhil
  #8  
Old 08-30-2023, 10:48 AM
navane navane is offline
GreekChat Member
 
Join Date: Sep 2001
Location: San Diego, CA
Posts: 2,938
Quote:
Originally Posted by 33girl View Post
When you’re pretty much told “if you don’t like it, you can quit” I would say you have run into a brick wall regarding taking it up with the organization. As many things that get labeled hazing because they “place one sister above another” KKG has done exactly that. They have shown that Artemis, who keep in mind did not meet grade requirements and was voted on in an unorthodox fashion, is more important than the members who filed the lawsuit. Perhaps when they refile they should throw in a hazing charge.
Just to be clear, I'm not saying that KKG did the right thing here, especially with the unorthodox way they apparently went about their member selection. I do agree that "hitting a brick wall" within the organization is frustrating. 100%

My point is that I am not at all surprised the court said that there wasn't much they could do to help a private organization which voted this member in. I think the lawsuit was as more about bringing attention and saying to KKG HQ that "we're serious", than it was about having any actual legal standing.

KKG is having their Convention this next spring. Perhaps the members need to make themselves heard during the general session. The problem is that people are afraid to speak up because they don't want to lose their membership and, that my friends, is where KKG has got them where they want them.
__________________
GFB Z
Gamma Phi Beta

True and Constant
Closed Thread


Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off


Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
Liberty University Discourages and Dismisses Students Reports of Sexual Assaults NinjaPoodle Academics 3 11-02-2021 11:22 AM
Alabama Sorority Dismisses Member for Slur on Snapchat exlurker Greek Life 11 03-08-2015 11:42 PM
Vermont Judge Dismisses Hazing Charges (FIJI - "Brokeback" Case) exlurker Risk Management - Hazing & etc. 30 01-15-2007 03:49 PM
Army Dismisses Gay Arabic Linguist moe.ron News & Politics 22 07-31-2006 02:37 PM
anyone from wyoming zinf77 Alpha Omicron Pi 4 09-19-2004 12:33 PM


All times are GMT -4. The time now is 04:13 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.11
Copyright ©2000 - 2025, vBulletin Solutions Inc.