Dirty Rushing

My daughter set up the meeting with the sorority president to explain to her what happened just so she was aware of the situation. It was not to get anyone in trouble it was just to have a two way face to face conversation. They had a pleasant conversation and that was that nothing more.

[carnation]

Well, they offered her a bid and she didn't want it. Not sure why she spoke with the president unless she wanted to rat out the members who insulted her bodily feature.

Carnation please stop making assumptions. We have taken peoples advice. She did not rat out anyone. She is trying to do the right thing (as was suggested by another on this thread) and my executive office and have a mature conversation. Nothing further has happened. Maybe the girls will be friends or maybe they will never see each other again. I don't know and only time will tell. All I know is she is a 17 year old kid who is made fun of constantly for something that is out of her control. It was brave and mature of her to face her insecurities and a learning lesson. Do you want me to tell her you inferred she is a rat so she is totally crushed? I have already apologized to anyone if they were offended by my posts. I am not sure what else I can say because honestly I am speechless.

[carnation]

I really don't care what you tell your daughter that a stranger on the Internet said. I assure you I won't be crushed. Nor should she.

And there are several of us who are wondering why she spoke to the president of the unwanted sorority. To tell her why she didn't deem them worthy of pledging? To tell her what the girls said about her body part? Something is really bizarre here and not adding up.

Back off, mom. She's at college and doesn't need you bulldozing for her.