AXOLiz, I'll take a TINY stab since I didn't get married till I was in my LATE 20's.
He gave YOU the card.
You E-mailed yet no response. I've deleted some things accidentally, he may not have recognized the "subject". Then again, 6 hours is considered geographically unacceptable by MANY, and there may be nothing more than the fact that he met two really nice women ad shared an evening.
She wants to call-Let her. A call is more aggressive than an E-mail and if somebody is on the wrong track, it will look like HER! (I know that sounds devious)
IF you all get together, a second meeting may be more revealing
as to where his interest is.
Take it from there. I wouldn't LET myself get too excited over this guy till farther down the road. Unless there is a very good reason for him to frequent your town, I will refer back to geography as an obstacle.
As far as your friend-Alls fair in love and war as long as each of you, being FRIENDS, doesn't cross any lines. You have to establish those lines however if you want to keep the friendship intact.
As far as her cmment about hooking you up with his friendsonce they are married-------I think SHE may believe she is teasing you, but this is not a joking matter in your eyes. Many a truth is said in jest! Good luck!
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