Cut from legacy chapter, and almost every other chapter after first round

[confusedmom]

Well, she got cut by that house, too. She knew it was over for her yesterday when she was paired with another rushee who really clicked with the girl rushing them and she was all but ignored. She's doing fine, I think she got all her hurt dealt with yesterday. I feel horrible for her and am just glad she's not here to see it. It's never easy to hear that no one wants your child.

[thetalady]

Originally Posted by confusedmom

Well, she got cut by that house, too. She knew it was over for her yesterday when she was paired with another rushee who really clicked with the girl rushing them and she was all but ignored. She's doing fine, I think she got all her hurt dealt with yesterday. I feel horrible for her and am just glad she's not here to see it. It's never easy to hear that no one wants your child.

Confusedmom, I am so sorry that this happened. I am going to say acknowledge the elephant in the room, which you might not want to hear. When a young woman is dropped by virtually every chapter after 1st round & does not to make it to pref, there is some kind of serious issue. This is NOT a matter of fell through any crack or accident. There was something, could be something that you are not aware of. We don't know.

At this point, I hope that you encourage your daughter to get involved in other activities on campus. Tell her to pick herself up & move on. If you think she was completely unprepared for some reason, then maybe do a better job of preparation & try 1 more time. Don't let her be one of these girls who goes through formal rush then COB and then Spring Rush over & over again.