How to COMPLETELY LEAVE my sorority?

[Titchou]

Originally Posted by shadokat

Also note that the money you spent on your NM program, initiation and dues is non-refundable. If you purchased a pin, I would suggest you try to sell it to one of your sisters or have the chapter purchase it back.

She may be required to return it. Some groups do that. I wouldn't presume what hers may require.

[33girl]

Originally Posted by Titchou

She may be required to return it. Some groups do that. I wouldn't presume what hers may require.

Shadokat is a member of her group, so she probably knows.

I'm guessing the shirts she referred to are event shirts or some such from a group order that she got charged for but by the time the order came in she was already out of the chapter and never received them. I'm sure the chapter could sell them to alumnae or the next semester's pledges and not lose money without screwing her over.

[shadokat]

Originally Posted by Titchou

She may be required to return it. Some groups do that. I wouldn't presume what hers may require.

As a DPhiE alum and active volunteer for nearly 20 years, I'm pretty sure I got this, but thanks. We had a member disaffiliate last semester and she received no refund and was encouraged to sell her pin back to the chapter. As for shirts, what do you want them for if you're disaffiliating? I'd say if you paid for them, they should give them to you.