Maybe this deserves a discussion

Originally Posted by carnation

Since you aren't Greek--since you turned your back--this is not your kuleana. Sorry.

That's fair, given your stance. However, I'd suggest coming from a place of more understanding and compassion. I made friends during my time as an active member and should you have had witnessed your friends tears or what have you I'm sure you'd feel just as passionately. There are hundreds of young women who want this and although we don't always get what we want simply questioning why can't this be done isn't a crazy thing to do.