Big/Little selection Drama. In need of advice.

[Sciencewoman]

Do you have an advisor? It sounds like your chapter has bigger issues. Is this an NPC group? In general, the new members' preferences take precedence over the active members' requests. Sorry to say it, but perhaps the new members picked up on the bad attitudes and didn't want to be matched with certain actives.

[33girl]

The NMs don't always get their preferences first (if at all). It varies from group to group.