Rudey: I'm just going to ignore your comment and pretend you don't exist
Everyone else.. thanks.. I've realized I have to be strong for the both of us

still no word on what is going to happen *for sure* after he graduates (tomorrow) but the chances are that we might end up in the same area. If not, he'll be 5 hrs away (or a 1 hr. plane ride!) so hopefully things will work out.