I need advice - should I drop?

[33girl]

I will third, or fourth, or whatever the freshmen-going-crazy thing. It's normal as apple pie - saw it all over in my dorm. The only reason I didn't was because I got into a serious relationship in about 5 minutes, which is another kind of freshman crazy. It's not because of the sorority in particular, it's because they are freshmen. Unfortunately with fall formal rush where women join a group before even having one college class, the two get tied together.

And please don't stress about your big. You might get the girl you've been hanging out with or you might end up with someone who seems like a crazy party girl on the outside but really isn't like that on the inside - and a relationship like that might be more beneficial for both of you. It's a special relationship but it is far from being the ONLY special relationship you will have in your sorority.

Stick with it.