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08-23-2015, 07:48 AM
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Originally Posted by GoMizzou
Ok-that's part of the problem. We know several girls that were cut-who , if we are talking tiers, which is ridiculous, did not want some of the 'top' tier houses. Perhaps shocking to some, but some of these girls have worked themselves to the bone in high school-and don't want to settle for a 'pretty' house when actually they are being cut by those other houses because they assume these 'pretty' girls won't give them a chance- and they want to maximize their options. But that might be part of the problem-because they are 'pretty' some of those other houses cut them because they think they won't consider them? From what I've just read-it seems there are many thinking girls dropped when they didn't get a 'top' house. I personally know for a fact there were many girls that wanted what you might consider mid-or even lower-tier houses. they were dropped early. they had 2 options. they were nervous because they didn't want a 'pretty' or 'party' house. It works both ways, girls are far more educated these days than people give them credit for. I would say more specifically on this, but I do not want to offend anyone on what choices their daughters make. It's unfortunate to think that there are parents who think the only reason girls drop is because they didn't get a 'top' house. "top" is defined differently by many-lets not lump all these girls into being totally superficial.
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Thank you for bringing this up. I definitely agree
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08-23-2015, 08:22 AM
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Over the years, we've seen people suggest that these outstanding girls who are dropped approach a sorority that's under total and try to join as a group. I recall this happening a few times and here's how it went down. The juniors and seniors highly resented the newbs who were trying to change their sorority into something they never wanted (maybe the older ones liked the smaller size or low-key ways) and all hell broke loose.
The idea really does sound great in theory but it doesn't always play out like you'd think it would.
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08-23-2015, 08:26 AM
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Quota was 83!!!
Every chapter matched to quota!!!
Congrats to all involved. I suspect there may be a few chapters who are below total once that number is released. (Including my own chapter, potentially.) So there may be COB options. But with every chapter matching to quota, there will be no snap bids this year.
Here's to hoping the PNMs on the field this morning are thrilled with their new homes!
Also, while I won't disclose actual numbers, as I'm not sure that is appropriate, I will reiterate that, as of the end of recruitment, 9.7% of the women who registered and did not end up with a bid were released by all chapters. The other 90.3% chose to withdraw when they still had invitations, or failed to maximize their options after preference (suicide or only listed 2 of 3). I'm not blaming those women or casting stones, but I think it is important not to malign the process or disparage the entire system based on rumors about how many women were released this year. Again, hugs to anyone who is disappointed. I can only imagine the heartbreak!!
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08-23-2015, 08:40 AM
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Originally Posted by pbear19
Quota was 83!!!
Every chapter matched to quota!!!
Congrats to all involved. I suspect there may be a few chapters who are below total once that number is released. (Including my own chapter, potentially.) So there may be COB options. But with every chapter matching to quota, there will be no snap bids this year.
Here's to hoping the PNMs on the field this morning are thrilled with their new homes!
Also, while I won't disclose actual numbers, as I'm not sure that is appropriate, I will reiterate that, as of the end of recruitment, 9.7% of the women who registered and did not end up with a bid were released by all chapters. The other 90.3% chose to withdraw when they still had invitations, or failed to maximize their options after preference (suicide or only listed 2 of 3). I'm not blaming those women or casting stones, but I think it is important not to malign the process or disparage the entire system based on rumors about how many women were released this year. Again, hugs to anyone who is disappointed. I can only imagine the heartbreak!!
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WOW this is wonderful!!! How long has it been since every chapter made quota? I think this speaks to the power of RFM and also bodes well for the strength of ALL the chapters on campus. I'm really happy to hear this.
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08-23-2015, 08:46 AM
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Originally Posted by WalkintheWoods
WOW this is wonderful!!! How long has it been since every chapter made quota? I think this speaks to the power of RFM and also bodes well for the strength of ALL the chapters on campus. I'm really happy to hear this.
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2011 was the last year. It really is exciting!! I know this was a heartbreaking year for many, so it's wonderful to see some happy news at the end of the week.
Edit - and if I don't stop looking at numbers and texting/messaging/replying to everyone and their uncle, I'll never finish getting ready for bid day!  But if any moms want information on which chapters are below total (once we know) and that are potentially going to have room for COBs immediately, feel free to message me. I'll do my best to help ensure every woman is able to go greek. Can't promise she'll have equal opportunity to be part of every chapter, but will help if I can to point her in the direction of the options available.
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08-24-2015, 10:03 AM
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Originally Posted by pbear19
2011 was the last year. It really is exciting!! I know this was a heartbreaking year for many, so it's wonderful to see some happy news at the end of the week.
Edit - and if I don't stop looking at numbers and texting/messaging/replying to everyone and their uncle, I'll never finish getting ready for bid day!  But if any moms want information on which chapters are below total (once we know) and that are potentially going to have room for COBs immediately, feel free to message me. I'll do my best to help ensure every woman is able to go greek. Can't promise she'll have equal opportunity to be part of every chapter, but will help if I can to point her in the direction of the options available.
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pbear19: Thanks for the information above. I sent a PM but not sure if it was received because it doesn't show up in my "sent" box. I would be interested in hearing if any chapters are considering a Fall COB and/or Spring COB. Thanks very much for all the great information.
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