pmdal, when I went through at UT, PNMs could pretty much only talk to non-alumnae women and each other during recruitment--alumnae were off-limits to avoid any possible relaying of information, opinions, and unofficial preferences between PNMs and chapters. Now, the only mention I've seen for this fall has been strict silence between final prefs and bid distribution, but I'm told that contact between PNMs and alums is still discouraged during the week.
What some are wondering is, if a girl's mom's sorority isn't on campus, is talking to Mom frowned upon? I'm pretty sure it's okay (of course, with daughter taking the lead, FSUZeta!), but nobody wants to jeopardize our girls' chances...
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