questions a PNM should ask during rush

[DeltaBetaBaby]

Originally Posted by elizey7

So you are basically saying that all the websites about rushing that suggest a good reason for joining is leadership opportunities are a load of crap?

No, we're saying that the women in sororities are, first and foremost, looking for women they could be FRIENDS with. Sure, we all want awesome singers for our rush skits and awesome athletes for our intermural teams and awesome leaders for our executive boards, but really, the most important damn thing is that you fit well with the women in the chapter. That's not something you can force or fake, and even if you could, it wouldn't get you anything except a bid to a chapter where you aren't comfortable.

[Alpha O]

Originally Posted by elizey7

So you are basically saying that all the websites about rushing that suggest a good reason for joining is leadership opportunities are a load of crap?

Nope.

Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby

No, we're saying that the women in sororities are, first and foremost, looking for women they could be FRIENDS with. Sure, we all want awesome singers for our rush skits and awesome athletes for our intermural teams and awesome leaders for our executive boards, but really, the most important damn thing is that you fit well with the women in the chapter. That's not something you can force or fake, and even if you could, it wouldn't get you anything except a bid to a chapter where you aren't comfortable.

This right here. DeltaBetaBaby is exactly on point. I wholeheartedly agree with her. I wish you the best of luck with your recruitment!