Rushing as a Sophomore After Being Cut as a Freshman

[Sciencewoman]

On the other hand, my combination preppy/artsy daughter (who is Carnation's sister) enjoys cosplay, and so do some of her chapter sisters!

Here's the rub -- from your post, it sounds like you're looking at tiers/ranking. The sororities that cut you may not be as open to quirky interests. Be yourself, realizing that you'll be happiest in a chapter where you don't have to try to be someone you're not. As a sophomore, you will have to be open to any and all groups, which you weren't last year. Honestly, your options will be even more limited now that some groups have cut you, and you declined a snap bid.

Since you have spring recruitment, you will need to "put yourself out there" during the fall...join a couple extracurriculars and become an active member, nuture real friendships with sorority women, and realize that you aren't going into recruitment with a fresh slate. Be open to all groups and focus on finding a home that's a good fit.