A brother in the fraternity I'm pledging is dating my ex

[MysticCat]

Originally Posted by TPA85

If I had a new roommate move in and tell me to re-arrange my life to suit them I'd tell them to keep apartment hunting.

Which is not really the situation here.

sialater, I get that this is uncomfortable. But stuff like this happens in life, and now is as good a time as any to learn how to deal with it. You really aren't in any position to ask him not to bring her over, and you certainly don't need to be giving him details of your history with her at this point. If nothing else, learn how to stay on the opposite side of the room from her, but don't be rude about it.

[33girl]

Unless there's a PFA floating around, you're going to just need to deal. You spoke to the brother about it and say he seemed cool - it could very easily have gone the other way and your bid could have been rescinded. Being mature about an uncomfortable situation (and not asking for things like him leaving his girlfriend home during events) will improve your status in the fraternity's eyes.

Plus, if she's in a sorority, the last thing you want to do is piss her whole chapter off.