2015 Indiana Recruitment

[ItsGreekTooMe]

Originally Posted by IndianaSigKap

Sometimes it's just best to move on and concentrate on the positive. PNMs who can focus on the chapters who did invite them back and find the positive in each chapter tend to fare better throughout the process.

ITA. My daughter went in with a completely open mind, and tried not to have preconceptions about any house. She got invitations from several of the ones she liked best. Of course she was disappointed about others (and not so pleased to get invites from houses she didn't like at all!) but said today was great and she's excited for tomorrow. I cant ask for more at this point!

[Titchou]

Originally Posted by ItsGreekTooMe

ITA. My daughter went in with a completely open mind, and tried not to have preconceptions about any house. She got invitations from several of the ones she liked best. Of course she was disappointed about others (and not so pleased to get invites from houses she didn't like at all!) but said today was great and she's excited for tomorrow. I cant ask for more at this point!

I would focus on that and try not to think about the "why." As previously stated, there is often no exact "why" - just because there are so many PNMs and someone has to go. Every chapter has their own criteria based on perceived needs. It's impossible to discern that from the outside. Continued good recruitment to your daughter.

[LAblondeGPhi]

Originally Posted by ItsGreekTooMe

ITA. My daughter went in with a completely open mind, and tried not to have preconceptions about any house. She got invitations from several of the ones she liked best. Of course she was disappointed about others (and not so pleased to get invites from houses she didn't like at all!) but said today was great and she's excited for tomorrow. I cant ask for more at this point!

Eek - I hope you meant that more along the lines of "less excited but still happy/grateful to be invited back to the houses she liked less than others".