Phi Kappa Psi at U of Virginia Voluntarily Suspends Activities

[33girl]

If a woman farts, plays video games, has male friends, and loves sports it should be because that's what she wants to do.

That's what I meant I disagreed with in the quote - assuming that no woman really likes those things and she's putting on a show to act "cool."

Not only that, I think it's kind of denigrating to assume that men (of all ages) can't see through bullshit.

[DrPhil]

Originally Posted by 33girl

That's what I meant I disagreed with in the quote - assuming that no woman really likes those things and she's putting on a show to act "cool."

I don't think that is the full point of the quote.

Some women are genuine and some women are perpetrating. Yet even the women who genuinely do those things (not because of a man) should not feel obligated to subscribe to this: "Cool Girls never get angry; they only smile in a chagrined, loving manner and let their men do whatever they want. Go ahead, shit on me, I don’t mind, I’m the Cool Girl."

I don't believe all men define "cool woman" in this manner. I do believe most men want some version.