It's also possible that if the transfer was between 2 vastly different schools - say, Yale to LSU or vice versa - she might not have felt comfortable or been accepted in ANY sorority, not just her own.
As I said, as much as it stings, I think I'd rather have a chapter lay their cards on the table and say "NOKD" rather than be accepted on paper only and not in practice.
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