Daughter decided to drop out of recruitment - need advice

[DeltaBetaBaby]

Originally Posted by thetalady

Some, but not all of them, will know that they invited her back & she declined.

If I'm reading the OP correctly, she did not decline any invitations.

In any case, if your daughter is still interested, and she'd consider COB this semester, you should have her contact the Greek Life office now. Depending on the campus, there might be chapters that want to quietly fill a few spots very shortly after bid day.

[thetalady]

Originally Posted by DeltaBetaBaby

If I'm reading the OP correctly, she did not decline any invitations.

Then what did you understand these statements to mean?

"At any rate, she got very nervous about the whole thing and decided to drop out of recruitment. (She was a little overwhelmed just starting at this new, giant school, coming from a small one!) She had already found out that the house she wanted asked her back again (it was the event right before bid night) so she was still in the game. "

You don't "drop out of recruitment" if you don't have invitations. If she was "still in the game, " then she still had invitations when she dropped out.

[DeltaBetaBaby]

Originally Posted by thetalady

Then what did you understand these statements to mean?

"At any rate, she got very nervous about the whole thing and decided to drop out of recruitment. (She was a little overwhelmed just starting at this new, giant school, coming from a small one!) She had already found out that the house she wanted asked her back again (it was the event right before bid night) so she was still in the game. "

You don't "drop out of recruitment" if you don't have invitations. If she was "still in the game, " then she still had invitations when she dropped out.

Oh, I misread "some" in your post as "some chapters," not "some members of the chapter." I thought you were talking about the other chapters she didn't return to.