This goes for all ladies... no matter what your size!
Make sure that you dress neatly in clothes at are flattering.
Make sure that you are well groomed. Hair and nails are neat. This doesn't mean that you need to go out and pay for a manicure, just make sure you don't look sloppy.
Make sure that you are clean--believe it or not some girls come through with horrendous body odor. Don't be that girl. Use deodorant and antiperspirant.
Don't hose yourself down with perfume. A nice body splash (a light clean scent) and lotion works so much better in this kind of situation. You don't want to be the girl that you could smell from 2 miles away.
Focus on your best qualities--(as was said before--physical and cerebral)
Enter the room with a smile and a lot of positive energy. Own it. Don't be cocky, but display confidence that no matter what size you are--you like you, and they should too! So many heavier girls go in with their heads down like they are already defeated. You are just as beautiful and just as valuable. Yes some sororities might not like you--but that's regardless of your size. Be open to the ones who are open to you! Would you want to be in a chapter that wouldn't want you...? Just move on to the ones who do!
I have seen girls that are a size 8 look horrible dressed in clothes that don't fit and girls that are a 16 look adorable because their clothes fit right and are an appropriate length and size.
I have seen girls that are a size 8 look horrible dressed in clothes that don't fit and girls that are a 16 look adorable because their clothes fit right and are an appropriate length and size.
This is so true! It is important that your clothes fit well and are flattering to you. If a slightly longer dress/skirt length(I'm talking just above the knees) looks better on you than the trendy short/tight ones do, go with what looks better. Trends be damned!
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