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Originally Posted by SoCalGirl
Not wanting to join a specific chapter =/= thinking you're too good for said chapter.
I really wish people would quit using that as a definitive statement.
There are plenty of reasons to not feel comfortable in a group.
How many times has GC given one woman grief for "taking a spot" for a chapter she didn't think she wanted and another woman praise for "giving the group a try" even when she didn't think she fit in with the group? This poster chose to SIP and it didn't work out. Now she has to deal with the outcome.
Good Luck OP with whatever you do!
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Those chapters are huge. I find it hard to believe that anyone would have a hard time fitting in to a group of 130 NMs. als may have been harsh, but she's pretty spot on.
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